therapy by ben.

Therapy options · Online in California

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that fits.

You may be trying to change your own behavior, work through broken trust together, or find more structure in recovery. Here is how the different options compare.

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Different formats.
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Individual therapy

A private place to understand sex or pornography concerns, work on patterns you want to change, and take responsibility for their impact.

$200 · 45 minutes

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Men’s recovery groups

Structured workbook work, guided discussion, and support from other men working on recovery. Tuesday or Thursday, 5:00–6:30 p.m. Pacific.

$75 · 90 minutes · 12-week minimum commitment

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Facing the Shadow intensive

Focused individual recovery work across three weeks, with preparation and couples sessions when appropriate to the agreed plan.

$3,000 · three weeks

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Couples intensive

A separate three-day format for couples needing focused time to clarify immediate concerns and consider next steps together.

$2,000 · three days

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A free 15-minute consultation gives us a chance to discuss what you need, the available options, and whether my practice is a fit. Selecting an option does not reserve a place.

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Before you choose

What matters for your decision?

Individual therapy gives you private time, a group offers a shared setting, and an intensive concentrates sessions into an agreed schedule. Consider the kind of support you need, the time you can commit, and the likely ongoing costs. More concentrated time does not guarantee faster recovery.

I’m based in Los Angeles and offer all therapy options online to eligible clients physically located in California. You can meet with me from San Diego, Orange County, the Inland Empire, the Central Coast, the San Francisco Bay Area (including San Jose and Oakland), Sacramento, the Central Valley, and elsewhere in the state. This is a private-pay practice. My individual recovery work is with the person seeking help for their own behavior; I do not provide standalone individual therapy for betrayed partners.

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For referring clinicians

I’m Benjamin Raskin, a California Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT #165600) and CSAT Candidate. I’m based in Los Angeles and offer telehealth across California. I work with individuals seeking help with their own sexual behavior or porn use and couples working through infidelity or betrayal. Men’s recovery groups and intensives may also be available.

Individual and couples sessions are private pay at $200 per 45-minute session. Clients can request a free 15-minute consultation to ask about fit and availability. You can share this page with clients or view current fees and practice contact details. Please keep client information out of the public inquiry form.

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