Day 0Preparation
The original preparation plan includes the SDI 4.0 Sexual Addiction Assessment, IPAST betrayed-partner assessment, and How We Love attachment-style questionnaire. We’ll discuss which tools fit, each person’s role, and consent before using them.
Day 1Stabilization
One 45-minute meeting with each partner and one 45-minute couples session.
Focus on safety, orient yourselves to the recovery process, and introduce check-ins and communication practices.
Day 2Orientation
One 45-minute meeting with each partner and one 45-minute couples session.
Explore relationship history and family-of-origin information to better understand what each person brings to the work.
Day 3Clarity
A 90-minute couples clarity session.
Bring the work together and establish a clear recovery plan, including appropriate ongoing support.